Health · Jul 9, 2026 · 3 min
Relationship burnout isn't the same as falling out of love
Relationship burnout looks like distraction or apathy, but it's usually more specific: a tiredness that builds when giving outpaces getting anything back.
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Writing on health
Writing on how couples care for their bodies and minds together - without turning it into a project or a guilt trip.
Health · Jun 25, 2026 · 3 min
When phones in a relationship keep coming between you
Phones in a relationship don't usually fail the big moments. They quietly fail the small ones, the bids for connection that closeness is built from.
Health · Jun 20, 2026 · 3 min
What happens to your relationship after having a baby
Most couples don't expect the relationship after having a baby to shift the way it does. The drift comes from bandwidth disappearing, not love fading.
Health · Jun 14, 2026 · 7 min
Talking to your partner about mental health, from both sides
Talking to your partner about mental health is harder to start than it needs to be. A guide for both sides: the person opening it and the one holding it.
Health · Jun 5, 2026 · 3 min
Supporting a stressed partner: what actually helps
Five forms of presence that help when your partner is stressed, and why the urge to fix their problems often backfires before they've been heard.
Health · May 30, 2026 · 3 min
What different sleep schedules do to couples over time
A look at what different sleep schedules in couples actually compress, and why what matters is usually not when you go to bed but what surrounds it.
Health · May 19, 2026 · 3 min
Eating together as a couple, even when the calendar says no
What eating together as a couple is actually for, and why a different schedule is worth noticing before the habit quietly disappears from the week.
Health · May 16, 2026 · 3 min
Exercising as a couple: how to make it actually work
A practical guide to exercising as a couple when your fitness levels differ, schedules clash, and enthusiasm doesn't always land on the same day.